What was the most valuable lesson your father taught you?

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What was the most valuable lesson your father taught you?

Mine?

I have a few.

Always know what's going three cars behind you and three in front at all times.

When stopping, always be able to see where the wheels of the car in front of you meet the road.

Always look left before taking off at a green light (when you're the first car on the line).

These lessons have saved me and my family quite a few times.

My grandfather taught me to only ever shave where I intended on shaving in future.

My stepfather taught me how to hit a baseball and most of what I know about building and construction and how to pack a van or car (hey, this one was invaluable!). 

There are many more lessons and tips I've received then and now. But these have been the ones I instantly recall and use on a daily basis.

Except the shaving one. I don't shave daily.

Anyway, what are the most valuable lessons passed down to you by your father?

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My dad taught me (and my sister) how to stay in a car for hours on end while he was at the pub. Lots of dad's taught their kids that lesson back in the 1950s - that was how they did their babysitting :(

On the plus side he taught me that it was ok to be me because he never imposed his own views of how I should be. He had a strong sense of social justice which I absorbed while growing up and that was the most invaluable lesson he could give me.

So, good and not-so-good lessons, but all character building, I guess?

My father always told me many, many times: "Always respect your elders".

Yup, an oldie but a goodie! Do you think that lesson is still being taught these days?

I remember dad saying that you had to learn to be content with your own company, in other words, not needing other people around to make you happy.   It’s a tough one.

I think I learnt that one by myself (see what I did there?)!

My dad( a good bloke) said always be honest & treat women with respect.

All the above can be difficult at times.

 Sadly the men around today don't hold the same value and sometimes you can see why, young women acting in a very unladylike fashion - downing shots and falling about gives the wrong impression, they are not necessarily bad girls, just looking like it.

My dad taught me that if a job's worth doing, it's worth doing well! A great piece of advice.

Absolutely!

 

So did my father Obbie, however, these days that doesn't seem to happen that often!

Nobody seems to have any pride in their work, it is a case of 'she be right mate' mores the shame.

We built a new house five years ago and both husband and I were on the builders back all the time it took eight months longer but it was corrected and the kitchen granite was totally replaced, what had they done you may ask?  They made up our granite in the wrong profile!  

They were putting it in and I said to my husband that is not correct it is the wrong profile!

Three months later we had the right one put in, but I had to go out and select another granite as there was none of the original available here in Perth at the time.

 

My dad (who was an accountant) taught me to "look after your pennies and the pounds will look after themselves". Ive never forgotten it!

Makes cents ...

My father taught me to love whatever I choose to do and do to the best of my ability. He taught me never to lose sight of the real purpose of life...be happy, do good for others.

He taught me to love nature, protect our planet and he taught me that there is so much more to learn and to never give up. I adore him.

 

My dad taught me similar lessons. I recall when I was fresh-ish out of school and thought I'd like to try something along the lines of his work (draftsman), he told me that his job was drawing straight lines and that I should investigate more creative pursuits. My stepfather was the same. He was a builder and he told me I could do much more. Both were very good at what they did and if I've even shaded their skill level at their chosen careers then I could consider myself a success. I'll leave that to others to judge, though. Hehehe ...

Suffice to say, I'm thankful to both of them for their advice.

My dad's advice on sport "Play hard, play fair, and if you can't win, be difficult!"

I like that a lot.

Hi Leon.

Your Father seems to have the same values as mine with regards driving.

He used to teach in the army in the UK during WWII and told me many hairy stories of his experiences with recruits.

It has stood with me for all these years, today having had a stroke eight weeks ago I am now unable to use my car.

My experience when I came out of having my driving test was a 2 year old ran in front of the car, I manage to stop in time, but my late father was so angry with the couple that was not caring for their child he told them off!  Explaining that I had only just got my driving license.

 

Wow, sorry to hear about your health issues Celia. 

Yes, I know it sounds strange that my main lessons were around driving. Dad has always loved cars and motor sports, so it stands to reason. He's taught me a lot of other lessons beyond 'the wheel' but these are the practical ones I take with me each day.

I hop[e you get the support you need to recover from your stroke.

I had a great dad, he taught me everything I know, nothing was off limits. Dad said cussing and swearing was good for the soul, so I learnt early how to be resilient, he taught me to appreciate knockout women and how to ignore the ugly ones, funny that, he was not a handsome man himself. Anyway, he also taught me the value of money, how to build my finance, pick a pocket or two he said, so I became brilliant at it and ended up in a correction place for teens, thanks dad! He taught me how to hold my drink, passing me bottles through the back window of the local pub really improved my wrist strength  until we got caught, thanks dad! Hope dad is looking down on me now and thinking he could’ve done a lot worse. I’ll be out of the clinker in a couple of months, thanks dad!

Most valuable lesson... how to read.

Also... how to swim.

If a job is worth doing it is worth doing well

How to appreciate nature

Patience

Respect

Love of animals

 

 

Grow organic veggies, compost, and don't eat packaged food. And how to steer a tractor, I was only very young and was only allowed to steer while he put the hay out. We later moved to town and I missed those quality times.

 

I am surprised this Thread has not done better than this!  Surely people have dads? 

 

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