Smacking cops a whack

Most Aussies over 60 probably copped the occasion smack from a parent, but research that shows 60 per cent of Aussie kids today have been physically punished has sounded alarm bells.

The findings of the national study of 8500 Australians have led to calls for the removal of the legal defence of “reasonable chastisement” in Victoria, which allows parents to use physical violence on their children.

“Children deserve equal protection against physical violence as adults,” said one of the lead researchers, Australian Catholic University Professor Daryl Higgins.

“In Australia right now, you have better protection from violence as a female adult or a pet than you do as a child,” he told the Herald Sun.

“If you want to reduce population level anxiety for women and men, don’t hit them as children. There is a very real connection between corporal punishment and current and lifelong experience of mental ill health,” said Prof. Higgins, from the Institute of Child Protection Studies.

The Australian Child Maltreatment Study shows 61 per cent of Australians aged 16 to 24 experienced corporal punishment from their parents on more than three occasions while growing up.

Females who experienced corporal punishment from their parents were 1.8 times more likely to suffer a major depressive disorder and 2.1 times more likely to experience generalised anxiety. Males were 1.7 and 1.6 times more likely to develop depression and anxiety respectively.

Were you smacked by a parent as a child? Did that have a big effect on you? Did you smack your children on occasion? Should smacking be regarded as an offence?

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Yup!  stop it right now. Buy a punching bag instead.

Agree with you totally Lucca...

Take your pick - a small slap for a totally disobedient child or let them grow up undisciplined and end up as criminals in gaol?

Not all end up there, but their chances do increase exponentially.

 

Sorry but I don't believe the so called evidence on this. I was occasionally smacked at home and had a caning at school as were many of my classmates. When I asked my father if he would complain to the school if I reported a caning, he replied 'no I'd support the teacher and probably do as my father did and give you another one.' Neither my father or grandfather had mental problems nor have I or my brother. I don't recall any of my school mates complaining or suffering from mental illness.

The recent epidemic in youth violence, car stealing, stabbings, home break-ins, muggings and alleged mental illness the latter which has become an industry is probably a reflection of today's laissez faire, hands off parenting style.

 

Viking - Couldn't agree with you more. I too had regular beatings by my religious teachers. Went home with welts on the calves but my parents thought they were not in the position to complain. My parents never hit us as they did. My Father was in boarding school and they were treated hellishly. Still they never complained. I didn't have 'mental health' issues and it was character building.  As the teachers said "Eat up drink up and shut up".  I'm afraid the parents of today let their children get away with too much. You only have to look at the behaviour in the shopping malls. I did give my children a little smack if they misbehaved and they knew not to do it again, and they grew up into well adjusted young men. 

 

 

 

Children copy parental behaviour. Smack a child....they grow up and smack theirs.. Hence we have domestic violence.

Smacking should be penalised.

 

 

Sophie, sorry but obviously I disagree. I have been married over 50 years to the same beautiful person who I have never and would never hit. All of our friends and family, most who had similar upbringings have been happily married for similar periods. The outbreak of domestic violence, divorces and single parents seems generally to be amongst people younger than us.

Obviously you are a gentle man Viking and there are many like you….however …a growing body of research has found a consistent link between experiencing corporal punishment from a parent (in the form of smacking) as a type of violence, and those children going on to be involved in partner violence in adulthood.

 

This research supported by 32 countries found that people who had been smacked as children were more likely to approve of intra-marital violence.

 

We cannot afford to ignore this vital research.

I was just getting out of my car yesterday in the parking lot when a woman came up to the car next to mine. She was extremely agitated and when she opened the back car door a young lad of about 6 tried to get out. Well she laced into him shouting and calling him every F... word and hitting him about the head. The poor little chap was screaming but she still belted him. I felt helpless but didn't want to interfere as she could have turned on me. Now that is why we have violence in the homes, the parents lose control and of course the children will learn from their actions.

I'd tried everything else first, talking, warning and time out to calm down so when my 3-1/2 year old granddaughter kicked and punched into me I gave her a slap on the leg.  I was held accountable by the parents and admonished never to do this again, which I didn't.  The same child, who is now 14, recently slapped her father twice across the face.   Many children are no longer corrected and guided as to what is not acceptable behaviour.  Have I missed something or is there not a difference between a slap on the leg and corporal punishment?  

It is an over-simplification to equate the occasional smack on the hand or leg, with a deliberate flogging or beating. When our now-adult children were out of line as littlies, the occasional smack worked extremely well as a circuit breaker, to stop unruly or unwelcome behaviour, and get their attention so we could then discuss the issues and/or behaviour.

Totally against violence in any shape or form, but totally agree with the occasional smack where necessary.

a smsck on the back of the legs never hurt,     but thats it,   i was never smacked,  hit,   but have smacked my kids on the bottom ,when they were small,    they have grown to be pretty well adjusted,     

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