Brianna, if you should decide to get married or concider living with someone, you should be very wary of a pre nup. They are now quite legal, in Australia, but the conditions that make such an agreement voidable, are extremaly numerous. A surprising number have been set aside since the introduction of the new act in 2002, You should read

University of Western Sydney Law Review

Oh o.k. Innes something else to think about. Nothing is absolutely easy

in this world is it. I have never been into living with a man as husband

and wife unless married so that will still not be an option for me.

I believe everyone has the right to do this if they want of course

but not for me.

Thanks for your reply as something else to organise if

my cold feet (which I have had forever) ever get warm and I

decide to say yes.

Dear Brianna. I am sure you will make the right decision

You have been given good advice.

All the very best

Keep safe in the air today my friend.

Phyl.

wendy222



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Joined 2008-07-01 bigval, i use my real name and don’t in the least feel superior,

wendy,

Posted: 19 January 2010 09:17

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I agree Wendy I do not feel supeior

using my real name wherever I go either. :)



My real name is also Phyl. so I use it

All The Time!!!!! wherever I go, as I

am not into being addressed as CutyPie

or Snoopy or any other funny name

as this is just not me, lol but I agree

with anyone wants to use these "Nic. Names"



I know a few people go to other forums and

pretend to be other people desperately being

anonymous............................

I am not a judge on whatever anyone deems

correct or incorrect. Not for me to worry about.



" I never knew if I saw a

person on another forum they were there anonymously"

Using a different name



(I would never divulge any name

I have been asked not to of course)... n e v e r............:).



I do not care a fig what anyone else does.

Unless they speak "in tongues about me"



If anyone sees me on SHS I am quite happy

for them to quote me or say g'day as I am

never hiding or trying to be anonymous.

If anyone does give their full name and address

to a person on the net that is their choice. Not many

do this do they? I do not know anyones.... as I just want net

friends and friends off the computer separate but both as

cherished.

Have a great day

Phyl.

clay,where is that piece you wrote about the soldiers on the plane?

p.s.good luck brianna

...

Its in the Hot Topics section Wendy with the heading ..."Airline Lunches "

thanks clay,i found it

thanks for that phyl and also thanks clay