Is this all we can look forward to?

Anyone spot the terribly sad story in the press about the 84yr old vision impaired, disabled veteran who attempted suicide in the English midlands?

Apparently there was an ongoing dispute with his German-owned power company E.ON, over an outstanding electricity bill going back 2 years. They claimed he owed $13,600. The callous jack-booted folk at the power company broke into the great-grandfather's home while he was in bed upstairs, and installed a pre-paid meter.

When the pre-paid shut off he spent 3 freezing nights without heating, light and cooking facilities, then wrote a heart-breaking note to his family and swallowed 100 sleeping tablets. He was found unconscious by his daughter and has since made a full recovery.

The irony of this whole saga is that the old bloke didnt owe a cent! (or should that be penny?) It appears the reason for his overly-high electricity bill was that his meter had been wired incorrectly and his Off-Tarrif was charged through his Peak-Tarrif. He had been over-paying for years and was well in credit. Fearful of his electricity accounts and what he supposedly owed, the fiercely independant bloke had stopped opening their letters, thinking he had just lost touch with how dear things had become.

Dont you think a simple visit from E.ON would have witnessed his circumstances, established hisusage and sorted out the incorrectly wired meter before things deteriorated as they did? The company (begrudgingly) offered an apology. I put this down to sheer laziness by staff at E.ON who seem to have their backsides stuck firmly to their chairs, and in the name of profits dont employ sympathetic consultants to follow up problems.

I strongly believe he should be offered free power from E.ON for the rest of his days.

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A very sad story. But why didn't he confide in his daughter, or other family members? This must have been an ongoing situation and if he was so worried it is a mystery why he kept it to himself. The electricity company may have taken notice of some younger irate family members instead of ignoring a poor old man.

Glad he is ok and yes the company should give him free power for life.

Margaret.

A very sad story. But why didn't he confide in his daughter, or other family members?



As with all these stories (and there are many of them) the tragedy is that most people turn around and say it's the victim's fault.

It is sad.

The reason I think he didnt want to burden his family is, as the article said, 'he was fiercely independent' and I guess being vision impaired (not being able to read the bills OR understand the pre-paid meter) he simply hoped the whole thing would go away.



Maybe he thought if his family took charge of his affairs they might admit him into a nursing home that he didnt like. Perhaps when/if we arrive at his age and IF we have all our marbles then we will have earnt the right to criticise him. I just felt sorry for him and sent the company a scathing email.



Interesting to note, none of you found fault or mentioned the company breaking to his home to install a pre-paid meter.

Obviously that should have been reported to the police. I have an 89 year old mother and we always look out for her. If someone did that to my mother I would have gone through the power company like a packet of crackers. Fair enough he wants to be independent but this saga must have been going on for quite a while and he was naive to think it would just go away.

I certainly hope his family has gone to the police about the house breaking issue.

Margaret.

Frankly, being a carer and having first-hand knowledge of how elders minds work(or don't work), the majority of them, fiercely independent or not, need to be assisted.They just lose the ability to cope with situations like this.

His family should have been discretely monitoring him. There is no way my dad could cope with something like that.

It is still possible for them to maintain some independence while having these difficult issues sorted out.

Today my dad had a cheque that needed to be deposited in his account.He had a deposit slip and a quick-deposit envelope, but he couldn't understand what information to fill in. It would have taken him hours to do, but it took me 5 minutes.

You don't do elders any favours by just leaving them to their own devices. You have to be there when needed, offer advice and assistance and know how to do it tactfully.

Poor bloke--so many of the much older generation--find things in these world today are moving to far to quick for them--they had NO right to break in and change things he was used to.

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