Forced Adoptions in Australia

Has anyone been keeping up with these stories?  It is a nightmare.

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2012-01-24/hospital-apologises-for-forced-adoptions/3789406

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2011-07-25/catholic-church-apologises-over-forced-adoptions/2808672

It is impossible to imagine that anyone here couldn't count a number of close friends and family who were affected.  I didn't ask anyone - who could - but there are many hands up in our own acquaintance.  Even with The Pill and condom use the public health statistics show a number of unplanned pregnancies will occur no matter what.  There is a failure rate, easy examples being: antibiotic use can interfere with the contraception pill and condoms can be lost in action.

Not only did many thousands of women at all levels of society have infants snatched from them, but equivalent numbers at least would have had terminations against their will because they could see no other viable alternative.

I do not want this to descend into a pro- or anti- abortion discussion.  That would be of no help to the women concerned.  However some of the pressures still remain - which is relevant.

You don't hear the impassioned pleas for sensitivity, understanding and compassiion for these women from the talking heads in the media or from those guvvy funded units who are supposed to be representing women.  Yet these women were denied the most fundamental rights of all -to be properly informed and supported at their most vulnerable time, and they are still suffering.

Why is it that a few groups claiming discrimination have been able to gain and protect great victim status (and no offence meant to them) whereas terribly sad lives like these (mothers who lost their children) are forgotten until years later and even then the attitude seems to be 'get over it'? 

It is impossible to imagine for instance that there would be continual lobbying demonstrations and ruckus in federal in parliament to get attention for these women, but why not?  Why must a certain few 'victim' groups have political cachet"  Is there a limit on the compassion we can show?

Speaking of which, the dreadful tryanny and suffering inflicted on wards of the State consumed the lifetime of survivors to get recognised.  Half a million Australian children alone were placed in institutions and foster care throughout the 20th century.  They are known as The Forgotten Australians.  Later it is as if they had all been forgotten and left wing lobbyists in particular are ferreting away on policy to bring more children under State control.. 

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They sure have a LOT to answer for!

Thanks for your interest PlanB

 

What surprises me if that even on a forum like this where the demographics must coincide it is exclusively those victim groups with political cachet who get the recognition and sympathy.

Their children were stolen and there are thousands of cases.  Surely Australians are not so hard hearted to turn our backs again on the plight of these women?

Thank you Nautilus,I was one of those unfortunate young girls,who had her baby taken from her,by no less than the Sisters of St.Joseph.They never have had children taken from them,so how could they be allowed to do it to thousands of young girls,I know that some of the girls were still children themselves,but unfortunately others were of an age that their voices should have been heard,like myself,I dont blame the Nuns,only the religious gobble de gook,that they stood for,my parents were R C's,and believed that it was a great sin,to them and the Church.God how their hair would go grey today,society does not frown anymore,what was wrong with society back in the 1960's.I dont believe we will get an apology from the Church,or anyone else for that matter,I would love to know how my son turned out,but it's a little late now.

Its never too late Jules . My friend had her son taken at birth about 40 years ago. She never forgot the pain of her loss so about 10 years ago she started searching. Wonderfully she found him, happily married with little twins. After some meetings and lots of openness he accepted Joan into his family. Her joy was beautiful to share so sometimes a tragic cruel past can turn into a wonderful future. But I do know not all are findable and the mothers pain goes on. I don't think you will ever get a sorry but my heart goes out to you

My heart goes out to you Jules

It is very sad in what happened to unmarried mothers in those early days, losing their child so quickly, like anything else it is so easy to look back and judge the decisions made by authorities "Political"  not being an apologist for how members of a church interperated the decisions. It was plain bad policy.

The circumstances in the early years of unmarried mothers was very dire,

no such thing as a baby bonus, a pension, or monetary help, may have received a food voucher. plus the so called 'shame' of a child out of wedlock, leaving the mothers open to being taken advantage of or forced into prostitution.

Like all things that originate with good intentions it doesn't take long for those with bad motives to take over and instead of help it becomes horror.

One can only imagine the pain of losing a child in those circumstances, I hope Jules,  that you,one day, be reunited with your child.

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