After the Move (Rusty's Dilemma)

Moves are long things. After the drudge of packing and arrival at the new address - there is the drudge of unpacking; of finding new homes for all the bits and pieces. Makes life a mess.
And poor dogs - Rusty’s world has shifted. He tries to impose the patterns of the old one onto the new. It doesn’t work.
The new rear door opens to a large garden. There are trees for dogs to use. But Rusty doesn’t. Because at the old place, the rear door opened to a verandah where nothing unproper ever happened. There, it was the front door first to open every morning to Rusty’s paradise, the wild bush. There he did his business, then ran around to read his peemail. But in the new geography the front door opens to a manicured yard and a NO for a dog’s business. I sense him squeezing his legs, yet he won’t let go in the garden. At the front door he stands, expecting wide spaces behind it, and relief.
Thankfully, a park is nearby and Rusty seems to ponder to make it Paradise Minor.
He cuddles up more than ever. His eyes are question marks: why does nothing last in life?
Klaus and Rusty
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Nulla that brought a tear to my eye--poor Rusty--and poor you--but Rusty will settle in--I have new people next door and they have a Lab' and when it 1st moved it was barking quite a lot and was rather nervous--however after a few kind word from me (and a few treats) she has settled in and now wags her tail at me and never barks unless she has need to.



I agree that packing and unpacking is a real pain--even I hate that when just going away let alone moving--I would just hate the thought of having to pack to move.



I wish you both all the very best in your new abode.

Give him lots of love and praise, which I'm sure you do...and he will settle in his own time. :-)

You had a decision to make and the prospects for Rusty may not have been as great as they are if a different scenario. You have each other and as you said a place he can run free albeit not as free as he has been used to. Life is not always exactly as we might want or even expect; but I suppose we all have to learn to make the best of it. All the very best and be happy. Are you still able to get out in your car (was it with a mattress in the back?) where you can both look at the stars and enjoy the peace and quiet? I hope you can, as that all sounded magical.

All the very best.

Phyl.

Dear Rusty will adjust. It will take him a little while, but he has you with him to help. I think it is harder on animals, with their instincts, to adjust, but they inevitably do, as long as they have their pack leader with them.

I really appreciate how difficult it is for you Nullarbor & of course Rusty. I wish I could swap with you. I had to have my 14 1/2 year old 1/2 Corgi stray down on Friday. You have no idea how empty my home is. I don't even want to fight with anybody, this weekend.

Very sad to hear that, Innes.

:((( so sorry to hear that Innes--it sure does break your heart

I'm sorry Innes. Our little pets mean so much to us, and when they go, they leave a hole in our hearts.

Poor Rusty, but I'm sure with your help he will soon adjust, and sad also for innes lossgood luck all around

Hallo all you lovely people! Rusty hasn't adapted - but I have. It's 2 one-hour walks now every day the park. Doesn't hurt.

But I wonder what'll happen when it rains?

A wet Rusty and Kaus

Walking in the rain is good - I live in an area where people don't pick up thier dog poos, so it's a side step here and there. But during the rain, the other people don't walk, so it's a good opportunity. Rusty will adjust - he just needs a bit more time. Dog's are wonderful, as long as they have the person they love beside them, they do adjust. Sounds like he is a bit older, so it might take him a bit longer, but he will get there. You can teach an old dog new tricks.

Hi Nullarbor, Are you sure Rusty hasn't adjusted better than you? He probably thinks you need the exercise!!! Our stray "cutie" has had 4 kittens, they are so gorgous, but it doesn't replace my "Boy". The house is so empty. It is so stupid, waking up at 3.00 am in the morning & being so careful to not step on my friend, who is not even there.

Innes - it will take some time for you to adjust to the lack of your friend. You will, but for the the moment, all you have is an empty heart. Your new little ones will eventaully fill it. Our pets do not live as long as us, but they fill our hearts with joy, while they are here, and we grieve when they go.

Thanks Bev

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